Years ago I ruined a friendship by reacting too quickly, getting angry and saying some hurtful things. Afterward, I was too embarrassed at the things I said, that I didn't apologize and let the friendship go. I've always regretted that decision, as I cared very deeply about this person and their family. I was too caught up in being right and then not strong enough as a person to mend what I broke. Today I wrote a letter to them apologizing and asking if they could forgive me and relayed how much I cared for their family. Life is too short to hold grudges and to be concerned about being right. I had a friend say once "Take care of people's hearts, they are like glass." It's so true. Some are like fine crystal and you have to handle them gently.
As I dropped that letter in the mail I felt a pang of butterflies in my stomach for lack of a better word. Will they forgive me after this many years or think I'm crazy? Either way, I've tried and told them I am sorry. A few years to late, but at least it's out there.
Wow. This is very brave! Makes me think about friendships that may need healing and do I have the courage to be the one to take the first step? Thanks for getting me thinking. Love you!
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